Is ANYTHING Possible if We Set Our Minds to It? Analyzing the Universal “Cannots” and “Possibly Cans”
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Posted on March 11, 2015
Has anyone ever told you that you can’t do something? That you can’t be something? That you shouldn’t chase your dreams or reach for the moon or glide amongst the stars? Well, don’t listen to them. As the saying goes, you can do anything if you set your mind to it. Okay, sure. All of the brain power in the world can’t grant us the ability to fly or the strength to move mountains. But there is a lot of truth to that statement. Yes, the world really does lie at your fingertips and dreams are reachable, no matter how unreachable they may seem.
What do you want to be when you grow up? Do you remember being asked that as a child? Recently, I directed that same question to a client’s three year old son during an office meeting. He responded with contagious enthusiasm, “A DOG!” Ah, to be young again … Sure, this response is an extreme example of what we perceive to be possibilities as children. But perhaps you answered that question with more realistic aspirations; a scientist or astronaut or President of the United States, even. The point is, as children, we really believed that we could be anyone and do anything. Without a smidgen of a doubt, the whole world was within our reach.
So at what point did that all change?
Maybe it is because, along the way, our beliefs (in what we can do and what we can be) are molded by our surroundings. We grow to learn that whether it be our individual circumstances, the presence or lack of luck, or the extent of our talents, our dreams and aspirations are limited. Not everyone can win the gold medal in ski jumping at the Sochi Winter Olympics. Not everyone can become a rocket scientist by mastering the study of aerospace engineering. No. Those dreams, those accomplishments, those aspirations are limited to those who are born with talent, who are born with smarts, who are born with wealth. They are not for people like me. At least, that’s what we learn to tell ourselves and, along the way, we lose sight of our personal beliefs; the belief in ourselves and our dreams that we saw as children as we sat in cardboard airplanes with oversized goggles on, reaching for the sky.
Okay, sure. We can’t set unrealistic expectations. As much as we set our minds to it, an innumerable amount of “Cannots” exist. We cannot move mountains, or fly, or transform ourselves into tail-wagging canines – we are humans and we have limitations. Despite the long list of Cannots, however, what remains is a boatload of “Possibly Cans” – Possibly can become a scientist, or astronaut, or travel the world, get a college degree, snag that interview, etcetera.
Interestingly, the word “dream” oftentimes implies a negative connotation and suggests an [unrealistic or self-deluding fantasy,] as the dictionary defines. But just because something is considered a dream, shouldn’t automatically mean that it is unrealistic and unreasonable. Maybe, just maybe, what we perceive to be idealistic aspirations are not as impossible as they appear. The word “dream” doesn’t just connote the impossible. It connotes the possible. It suggests that the ability to envision a dream points to its potential achievability, an “if you can dream it, you can achieve it” kind of message. What we fail to remember is that, sure, we are humans with limitations, but we are also humans with an immense capacity of intelligence and power. Of course, we shouldn’t expend energy in aspiring to accomplish the universal Cannots. But the Possibly Cans? With the right formula of realism and positive thinking, of determination and motivation, we can be whatever we want to be and do whatever we want to do. With the right formula our dreams … our aspirations … are limitless.
So, next time someone tell you that you can’t do something or that you can’t be something, don’t listen to them. Listen to yourself. Eliminate the word “impossible” from your vocabulary and divide that negative expression into two independently powerful statements: I’M POSSIBLE. I am possible. You are possible. We are all possible. Everything is possible – if you set your mind to it.
I leave you with a very fitting quote by Walt Disney:
If you can dream it, you can do it.
Tagged: believe, blogging, dreams, life, motivation, positivity, possibility, postoftheday, writing, youcandoanything
One of the best ways to get me to do something is to tell me “you can’t do that.” Twenty six years ago, someone told me, “You can’t be an exchange student. People with mobility impairments can’t be exchange students.”
Twenty five years ago, I left for one of the best years of my life – my year as a Rotary exchange student to Australia. Nineteen years ago, I went back for a visit. In three days, I’m leaving for another two week visit.
Sure, I’ll never be able to independently get myself out of my wheelchair and onto the toilet. I’ll never be able to independently roll myself over in bed. Those are physical impossibilities, which I really don’t care about. There are many things I continue to do which others have said ‘you can’t.’
I decide what is possible or impossible for me. Thank goodness I learned long ago not to listen to those “can’t” people 🙂
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Dee, that is such a great story! I’m so glad that you didn’t focus on the “cannots.” I would love to see Australia one day! You will have to let me know the best spots because it is definitely on my list. I hope you have a great trip. 🙂
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Thanks! It’s a beautiful country, full of nice people. But isn’t that true if so many places?
I’ll be blogging about it every day for two weeks starting Saturday if you want to follow along!
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Amen.
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🙂
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Eliminating that word “impossible” is so important.
Thank you for sharing this very important post! 🙂
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It certainly is! Thank YOU for reading!
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Dont let the past experience and others word limit your mind. Anything is possible! Thank you so much for sharing this 😉
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That’s exactly right, Jade! Thank you for stopping by!
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Reblogged this on mandibelle16 and commented:
She is a wonderful writer from a great blog: http://www.loveandolives.com
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Thank you for sharing and for the kind words, Mandi! It means a lot!
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No problem!
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Thank you for sharing such inspirational thoughts!
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I’m so glad that you enjoyed it! Thank you for reading!
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I couldn’t agree more.. Eliminate ‘impossible’ from your vocabulary and eliminate negative energy from your environment. If we take complete control of our own lives I too believe we can achieve just about anything we desire! Thank you for sharing this.
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Right on, Jade. The key certainly is in maintaining positive energy. Sometimes that is so difficult that it’s easy to succumb to the “cannot” attitude. It’s work in progress, but definitely work the effort! Thank you for reading. 🙂
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I agree. I wish I was better at ignoring the “you can’t” people. I never did learn how to fly an airplane 😦
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I love Disney quotes. They fit for everyone and are based on his own personal experience.
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Encouraging thoughts. Thanks visit my blog.
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Reblogged this on my personal thing.
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