You know, I’ve been trying to write this post for two months. I would experience a fireworks show in my head; flashes of images from our wedding day which would swirl and circle and explode into colorful illuminations of what I would say and how I would say it. Then, I would sit at this very laptop, place my fingers on the keys and, well, anything that settled onto the screen was never good enough. For this wasn’t just an ordinary day.   This was the best day of my life.   If you are getting married, or have been married, you know that people will tell you what to expect and will offer their best advice. They tell you that it will go…